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Lesbi-Honest

Lesbi-Honest

Sarah St John interviews and has candid conversations with other women who realized they were queer (and/or are coming out) after they were 30 years old. Topics include repression, suppression, denial, heteronormativity, societal pressure, religious trauma, family backgrounds, and more.

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Recent Episodes

Battling and Overcoming  Internalized Homophobia,  Compulsory Heterosexuality,  and Cognitive Dissonance Oh My! (with Anne-Marie Zanzal)
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Oct. 23, 2024

Battling and Overcoming Internalized Homophobia, Compulsory Heterosexuality, and Cognitive Dissonance Oh My! (with Anne-Marie Zanzal)

Anne-Marie Zanzal, a coming out coach and former chaplain, shares her profound journey of self-discovery and acceptance after coming out later in life. She discusses the complexities of navigating her sexuality while being married and raising children, emphasizing the importance of community and support for those in similar situations. Anne-Marie highlights the concepts of cognitive dissonance, internalized homophobia, and compulsory heterosexuality, shedding light on the challenges many face wh
The Soft Launch: Sarah Interviews Her Girlfriend, Britt
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Aug. 7, 2024

The Soft Launch: Sarah Interviews Her Girlfriend, Britt

💡 Guest bio Britt went through a period of self-discovery and came out to her family after getting divorced in 2012. She was nervous but had a supportive conversation with her parents and sister, who were all understanding and accepting. Her dad even lightened the mood with a joke, showing his support. Britt is grateful for the positive experience and the acceptance of her family. ℹ️ Introduction Welcome to another episode of Lesbi-Honest! In this episode, Sarah St John invites her girlfriend, B
Second Chance Romance: Late-Life Lesbian Love (with Aime and Lisa)
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July 5, 2024

Second Chance Romance: Late-Life Lesbian Love (with Aime and Lisa)

Episode Summary How would you feel if you discovered your true sexuality after years of marriage and starting a family? Join us as we explore the remarkable stories of Aime and Lisa, two brave women who came to terms with their lesbian identities in their 30s. They share their deeply personal journeys of self-discovery, reflecting on the societal pressures and personal expectations that initially concealed their true selves. Through their candid conversations, Aime recounts her apathy towards me
All About Lesbian Sex: Pleasure, Consent, Orgasms, Toys, Sexual Health & Hygiene (with Cherish Amber)
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June 20, 2024

All About Lesbian Sex: Pleasure, Consent, Orgasms, Toys, Sexual Health & Hygiene (with Cherish Amber)

About the Episode and Guest Cherish Amber, a seasoned queer sex, intimacy, and relationship coach, takes us on an extraordinary journey of self-discovery and acceptance. From identifying as bisexual at 15 to embracing her identity as a lesbian, Cherish shares the challenges and triumphs that have shaped her path. She offers poignant insights into the emotional and sexual differences between relationships with men and women, underscoring the authenticity and freedom she finds in her queer relatio
Come Out When the Joy and Freedom of Being Out Supersedes the Pain and Fear of Living in the Closet (with Suzette Mullen)
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April 29, 2024

Come Out When the Joy and Freedom of Being Out Supersedes the Pain and Fear of Living in the Closet (with Suzette Mullen)

💡 Host bio Sarah St John is a woman who faced a major crossroads in her life after being married for 18 years and getting divorced. Despite not having children, she had to navigate the difficult transition from a comfortable and seemingly problem-free marriage to being on her own. Throughout her marriage, she had enjoyed the financial stability and companionship that came with being married, but now she is forging a new path for herself. Her experience has given her a unique perspective on the c
No, The LGBTQIA+ Community Isn’t Going to Burn in Hell For Eternity (or at all, for that matter)(with Susan Cottrell)
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March 20, 2024

No, The LGBTQIA+ Community Isn’t Going to Burn in Hell For Eternity (or at all, for that matter)(with Susan Cottrell)

💡 Speaker bios Susan Cottrell and her husband were deeply involved in the evangelical church for 20 years, finding a sense of community and family within it. However, their perspective changed when two of their five children came out as queer. This prompted a re-examination of their beliefs, as one of their children expressed that they had tried to resist their identity but ultimately realized they could not deny who they were. This experience led Susan to become an advocate for the LGBTQ+ commu
Combating Misinformation and Anti-LGBTQIA Fear in Religious Communities (with Rev. Brandan Robertson)
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Feb. 23, 2024

Combating Misinformation and Anti-LGBTQIA Fear in Religious Communities (with Rev. Brandan Robertson)

💡 Guest bio Rev. Brandan Robertson's journey to becoming a pastor began at the age of 12, when he had a conversion experience at a Baptist church in Maryland. Despite growing up in a non-religious household, he felt a distinct calling to pursue a career in the ministry. Now, at the age of 32, he has dedicated himself to fulfilling that calling and is on the path to becoming a pastor. ℹ️ Introduction Welcome to the Lesbi-Honest podcast, where we talk openly and candidly about the experiences of l
Surviving the “Ex-Gay”  Conversion Therapy Cult (aka Reparative Therapy)(with Lacy Jones)
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Oct. 25, 2023

Surviving the “Ex-Gay” Conversion Therapy Cult (aka Reparative Therapy)(with Lacy Jones)

ℹ️ Introduction Welcome to another captivating episode of Lesbi-Honest! I'm your host, Sarah St John, and today we have a very special guest joining us. Please give a warm welcome to Lacy Jones, a talented musician, former ministry leader, and an advocate for LGBTQ+ rights. Lacy's journey is one filled with personal struggles, navigating religious institutions, and ultimately finding her true authentic self. In this episode, Lacy opens up about her experiences in ministry, the challenges she fac
How to Know When to Come Out, Who to Come Out to First,  and How to Come Out (with Candice Czubernat)
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Sept. 27, 2023

How to Know When to Come Out, Who to Come Out to First, and How to Come Out (with Candice Czubernat)

💡 Guest bio Candice's story is one of self-discovery and resilience. Growing up in a Christian environment, she grappled with her own identity and struggled with depression and anxiety. It wasn't until she reached college that she realized she was gay, a realization that completely caught her off guard. This revelation propelled her to want to help others in similar situations, leading her to pursue a career as a therapist. Drawing upon her own experiences, Candice is determined to provide suppo

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